欺負(Bullying)——歐美美國十大問題

欺負(Bullying)——歐美美國十大問題在《歐美美國十大問題》中排名第6名。我們精選了部分網友觀點： ...

欺負歐美美國十大問題在歐美美國十大問題中排名第6名。

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我們精選了部分網友觀點：

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我14歲了，我一輩子都被欺負過。我們需要解決這個問題。這些欺負者會發展成地域主義者和唐納德·特朗普類型。拜托，別欺負了！

I'm 14 years old and I have been bullied my whole life. We need to fix this. These bullys grow into terriosts and donald trump types. Please, stop bullying!

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我是一個13歲的女孩，她被欺負了一生，死亡是一個經常浮現在我腦海中的想法。我的家人、朋友和我的男朋友是我不會自殺的唯一原因。我現在決定分享這一點的原因是因為一個對我很重要的人正在經歷我所經歷的一切在我的一生中，那些欺負別人的人認為，因為他們感覺不好，他們必須讓別人感覺不好，但是他們沒有，如果他們是好人，他們會找到一個愿意愛他們的人，這樣他們就不需要傷害別人或自己。因為如果他們需要我或希望我，我會愛他們

I am a thirteen year old girl who has been bullied her entire life and death is a thought that often finds its way to my head. My family and friends and my boyfriend is the only reason why I won't kill myself. The reason why I have just now decided to share this is because someone who is very important to me is going through what I have went through my entire life. The people who bully think that because they feel bad they have to make others feel bad but they don't and if they would be nice they would find someone who is willing to love them so they don't need to hurt others or themselves. Because I will love them if they need me to or want me to.

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在你被虐待之后，你依然堅強。這是大多數人沒有的能力。我希望你不要自殺，因為如果你自殺了，總有人會被徹底摧毀。想想你愛的人。他們希望你活下去，那么就為他們去做吧。—藍寶石香草

You have still stayed strong after all your abuse. That is an ability most people don't have. I hope you don't kill yourself, because there is always someone who would be absolutely devastated if you did. Think about the people you love. They want you to live, so do it for them. - BlueTopazIceVanilla

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托帕茲說了一句成熟的話，很好。很高興你還很強壯。—Skullkid755

Topaz said something mature for once, good. Glad you are still strong. - Skullkid755

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你真的很堅強！-NA123

Your really strong! - NA123

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我想除非你親身經歷過，否則很難理解一個人在經歷什么。我從來沒有遇到過這樣的問題，但這僅僅是因為我上的是一所很好的學校，那里幾乎不存在欺凌行為。我確實知道想要成為正常人的感覺，這樣人們就不再對你另眼相看了。欺負者有著完全不同的心態。他們很有可能是在一個不好的家里長大的，并且發展成了一個非常脆弱的心理，以至于他們會利用他們的身體感覺更強大的力量。總有一個理由……這并不能讓事情變得更好，但也許如果能花更多的精力去理解受害者和欺凌者，就可以建立一種橋梁。欺負者希望人們能感受到他們的感受，有人能理解。這就是為什么他們不會停止。希望別人理解你是人類的本能，每個人都會自然而然地感覺到。怎么能指望任何人都能與之抗衡呢

I think its hard to understand what someone is going through unless you experience that yourself. I've never had those kinds of problems, but only because I go to a great school where bullying is practically nonexistent. I do know how it feels to just want to be normal so people stop treating you differently. Bullies have a completely different mindset. there is a good chance they had grown up in a bad home and had developed such a weak mind that they use their physical strength to feel stronger. There is always a reason... that doesn't make it any better, but perhaps if more effort was put into trying to understand the victims AND the bullies, a sort of bridge can be built. Bullies want people to feel how they had felt, for someone to understand. which is why they don't stop. Wanting someone to understand you is a human instinct everyone feels naturally. How can anyone be expected to fight against that.

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恃強凌弱讓孩子們從里到外都流下了眼淚。這太可怕了。孩子們逃學了，遠離了人，甚至到了自殺的地步。這不是我們下一代應該做的。大人們對彼此也很不好。有些人太不成熟了，他們不得不拆散別人來讓自己有感覺更好。我覺得這太蠢了。有些孩子欺負其他孩子，因為他們的父母也做同樣的事情。這不是這個世界應該做的。我們應該一起努力建立彼此，而不是拆散他們。所以，向那些欺負他們的人喊叫，停止這樣做！你比那好多了！讓別人感覺糟糕并不會讓你感覺更好

Bullying tears kid's down inside and out. It's terrible. Kid's are skipping school, staying away from people, and even to the extent of killing themselves. This is NOT how our next generation should be acting. Adults also treat each other poorly. Some people are so immature that they have to tear down other people to make themselves feel better. I think it's so stupid. Some kids bully other kids because their parents do the same things. This is not how the world should be acting. We should be working together to build each other up, not tear them down.So a shout out to those bullies out there, stop doing it! You are so much better than that! It won't make you feel any better to make someone else feel terrible.

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欺凌已經失控了，它在社交媒體上，在學校里，甚至在工作場所。是時候把它消滅了。不要欺負你，你知道你是誰，你為什么這么做。在Facebook，Twitter，Google+其他許多網站上，我們組成了這個人的世界，是時候好好休息了。說話之前停下來，開玩笑還是不開玩笑大多數人都把你說的話當真。這是一個可以殺人的問題，沒有更多的棍棒和石頭，那就是虐待。當這些欺負人的人，每個人都有自己的孩子時，你認為他們會像自己的孩子一樣被欺負嗎？我說不行。停止循環，停止虐待

Bullying has got out of hand, it on Social media, it in schools every where, even in the work place. Time to stomp this out of existence. S T O P Bullying you know who you are, why you do it. On Facebook on Twitter on Google + many other sites, We make up this world of people, it time to get a long. stop before you speak, joking or not. Most people take, what you say seriously. It is a problem that can kill, no more sticks and stones, It is Abuse. When each of these people, who do bully, have their own children. Do you think they would, like their child bullied? I say not. Stop the cycle, stop the abuse.

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我在網絡上被欺負了，這是不對的。你可能對某人感到厭惡，或者你被欺負了。這意味著你不必因為這些原因而欺負他人。我試圖阻止人們因為他們變得憎恨而做出這種行為。使用“停止仇恨”或“停止欺凌”的標簽。如果你被欺負了，請與如果有人對你不聞不問，最好不要回應，因為這會引發戲劇性的一幕。如果你需要和我談談你的任何問題，我是來找你談談的。只要記住，如果你被欺負了，那可能是因為他們對你很反感，或者他們可能被自己欺負了，你可以問他們為什么恨你。我的話不要回應，好好想想你自己你是美麗的/英俊的，你的堅強不是軟弱的，相信你自己因為我相信你

I was cyber bullied and It is not right. You may be jelous of someone or you may be getting bullied. Which means you don't have to bully another person because of those reasons. I try to stop people from commiting sucide because of they are getting hate. Use the hashtag #STOPHATE or #STOPBULLYING. If you are getting bullied talk to someone about it and ignore them it's better to not respond because it can start drama. If you need to talk to me about any of your problems I'm here to talk. Just remember if you are getting bullied it may be beause they are jelous of you or they may be getting bullied their self and you could ask them why they are hating on you. My words are to not respond and think good about your self you are beautiful/handsome, your strong not weak, and believe in yourself because I believe in you.

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我是一個13歲的男孩，在六年級的時候經常被欺負，當我要報告的時候，學校什么都沒做，現在在七年級的時候，我在一個老師面前被兩個人踢了又打，而她什么也沒做。我告訴了我的爸爸，他很生氣，和我的老師談了談他們什么都沒做。永遠不要相信老師會幫助制止欺凌行為

I'm a thirteen year old boy and in the sixth grad got got bullied a lot and when I would report it the school didn't do anything and now in seventh grade I was getting kicked and punched by two people right in front of a teacher and she didn't do anything. I told my dad about the repeated bullying and he was furious and talked to my teacher and they didn't do anything. Never trust the teachers to help stop with bullying.