失去父母(Losing a Parent)——歐美生活中最糟糕的十件事

失去父母(Losing a Parent)——歐美生活中最糟糕的十件事在《歐美生活中最糟糕的十件事》中排名第3名。我們精選了部分網友觀點： ...

失去父母歐美生活中最糟糕的十件事在歐美生活中最糟糕的十件事中排名第3名。

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在我21歲生日之前失去母親是我一生中最艱難的時刻。我現在33歲了，每天都在想她，和她聊天。那天在醫院溜出去的我感到很內疚，打電話給我的伴侶，告訴他最新情況……在那段珍貴的時刻，我母親短暫地清醒過來。我看到她醒了，我穿過走廊，悲傷地閉上了眼睛，我還沒來得及道別。內疚感至今仍很強烈。我真希望我能在那里。我經歷過痛苦，就像身體上的痛苦。我對不起，媽媽，在你活著的時候，你對你的愛不夠。這將永遠困擾著我……對我來說，這是人生中最糟糕的事情之一

Losing my Mother just before my 21st Birthday was the hardest moment of my entire Life so far. I am 33 now and still think of and talk to her everyday.The guilt I feel for slipping out that day at Hospital, to call my Partner and give him an update... during the precious moments my Mother was briefly conscious. I saw her awake as I ran through the corridor and sadly her eyes closed before I had the chance to say Goodbye.. guilt is still so strong to this day.I wish I'd been there.I have experienced anguish and it's like physical pain.I'm sorry Mum, for not loving you enough while you were alive.This will haunt me forever... By far (for me) one of the worst things to happen in Life.

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當我父親過世時，他的家人都在他身邊，握著他的手，告訴他我們愛他。他仍然很想念他，但我很慶幸他不是一個人死的。他死的時候知道自己有多愛他

When my Dad passed, he had all his family close around him, holding his hand and telling him that we loved him. He is still very much missed, but I'm just so thankful he didn't die alone. He died knowing just how loved he was.

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每次我父母不帶我去出差或去別的地方，我都會哭著睡著，因為我覺得他們會死的

Every single time one of my parents go on a work trip or somewhere else without me I cry myself to sleep because I think they're gonna die.

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我去年失去了我的母親…仍然沒有讓她離開。很可能永遠不會。她是我第一次呼吸時看到的第一個人，我學會愛的第一個人，最重要的是，那個給了我生命的女人。她照顧我。她愛我就像我愛她一樣深。真愛是家庭的愛。失去它就像失去了你的一部分一樣……有時候你永遠也得不到

I lost my mother last year...still haven't let her go. Most likely never will. She was the first person I looked at when I took my first breath, the first person I learned to love, and most of all, the woman who gave me life. She took care of me. She loved me just as much as I loved her. True love is family love. Losing it is like losing a part of you...sometimes you'll never get it back.

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幾個月前我失去了我的父親，我只有12歲我想念他盡管他有點虐待他是一個慈愛的父親即使他自殺了。他有抑郁癥的疾病。如果你有幸擁有他們，永遠愛你的父母。我會說，更糟糕的事情會發生，即使這很難

I lost my dad a couple months ago and I'm only twelve I miss him even though he was a bit abusive he was a loving father even though he killed himself. He had the disease of depression. Always love your parents if your lucky enough to have them. I would say worse things can happen even though this is hard.

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我失去了我的爸爸，我的弟弟和媽媽現在每天都在吵架，整個情況很糟糕。我不想聽起來像一個邊緣人，但我感到很空虛，好像所有積極的情緒都已經泄露出來，而你只不過是你以前的自己的一個外殼。我爸爸是一個聰明，有趣，不可預測的人，給了我人生的方向感

I lost my dad, my brother and mom now fight daily, the whole situation is awful. I don,t mean to sound like an edgelord but I feel hallow, like every positive emotion has leaked out and you are nothing but a husk of your former self. My dad was a brilliant, hilarious, unpredictable man who gave me a sense of direction in life.

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幾個月前我失去了我的父親，我才12歲，他得了一種叫抑郁癥的精神病，自殺了。我相信更糟糕的事情會發生，但我不喜歡分享，所以很多事情都會發生，所以如果你有幸有任何晨曦，就永遠愛你的父母

I lost my dad a couple months ago I'm only twelve he had a mental illness called depression and killed himself I believe that worse things can happen though and I don't like to share so just a lot can happen so always love your parents if you are lucky to have any - morgs

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這對任何人來說都是最糟糕的事情，除了死，我的意思是你父母把你養大，聽到他們死了，就像被折磨和送進集中營一樣！這也適用于你非常愛的其他親戚和寵物

This is easily the worst thing that will ever happen to anyone besides dying. I mean your parents raised you and hearing them die is like being tortured and sent to a concentration camp! This also applies to other relatives that you loved very much and pets.

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我失去了我的雙親，我才11歲。這種感覺不太好，你意識到當你長大后，你不會有任何人離開，除非你有一個兄弟姐妹，我沒有。唯一要說的是告訴你的父母你愛他們，而你還可以

I've lost both my parents and I'm only 11. The feeling isn't good and you realize that when you grow up your not going to have anyone left unless you have a sibling, which I don't... The one thing I have to say is tell your parents you love them while you still can

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我為你的父母感到很抱歉，希望你的新父母會照顧你，如果你有一個-mumbiz01

I feel so sorry for your parents, hoping your new parents will take care of you (If you have one) - Mumbizz01