失去一個孩子(Lose a Child)——歐美生活中最糟糕的十件事

失去一個孩子(Lose a Child)——歐美生活中最糟糕的十件事在《歐美生活中最糟糕的十件事》中排名第4名。我們精選了部分網友觀點： ...

失去一個孩子歐美生活中最糟糕的十件事在歐美生活中最糟糕的十件事中排名第4名。

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我29歲的時候在一場車禍中失去了兩個分別3歲和5歲的孩子和8歲的妻子。那是5年前的事了。我想我現在生活中最艱難的部分是。當你有了孩子，你會對你的人生成就感到真正的意義和一種新的自豪感。我記得那種感覺。在最初的2到3年里，我有這種感覺我不知道自己該怎么辦，我的人生該往何處去我想就像電影《七磅重》中的威爾·史密斯一樣，但我不想像電影里的他那樣死去。我是怎么想的。我就像一個長壽的老人，在那里住了很長一段時間，但這一切都發生在我20多歲的時候，所以我想情況不一樣了。它糟透了，但總要發生在生活中的某個人身上。這樣就更好了。我最為我父母感到難過。我想對他們來說是最難的。一想到那孩子每天醒來，每天都會有不同的生活

I lost my 2 kids ages 3 and 5 and my wife of 8 years in a car accident when I was 29. That was 5 years ago now. I think the hardest part of my life now is.. When you have kids you feel a true meaning to your life accomplishments and a new kind of pride. I remember what that felt like. For the first 2 to 3 years I had this feeling of that I didn't know what to do with my self and where to go with my life I guess like will smith in the movie Seven Pounds but I didn't want to die like him in the movie. how I take it is. I'm just like an old person that lives to long and out lives there family but this all happen to me when I was in my late 20's so I guess its not the same. It sucks but has to happen to someone in life... there you go that's better. I feel bad for my parents most of all. Its hardest on them I think. The thought of there kid wakening up everyday to such a different life day after day.

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悲傷的故事：讓我像一只瘋狂的海豚一樣哭泣

Sad story :( makes me want to cry like a crazy dolphin :( - CerealGuy

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我很抱歉，伙計。真是太傷心了。這讓我想哭一場

I'm sorry man. That's pretty sad. This makes me want to cry a bit.

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我很抱歉問你妻子8歲了嗎？-匿名小妞

I'm sorry to ask but does that say that your wife was 8 years old? - AnonymousChick

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我有一對兩歲的雙胞胎。我在網上讀到一篇關于一個2歲小女孩被父母殺害的文章。每次我讀到這樣的故事，我哭著向上帝祈禱，我的孩子永遠不會受到傷害。讀了這篇文章后，我想失去一個孩子一定是這輩子發生在任何人身上的最糟糕的事情，這就是我在這篇網站上發表的文章的原因，我無法想象你所承受的痛苦。難以形容的，無情的痛苦。一個人要經歷那么多痛苦，我知道必須有正義。生活真的會那么不公平嗎？我希望，祈禱，并真誠地相信，一旦生命結束，所有這些令人驚嘆的堅強的父母將與他們的天使團聚。這一生是如此的艱難，對別人來說更艱難，對最堅強的靈魂來說也是最艱難的

I have twins aged 2 years old. I read an article on the internet about the murder of a 2 year old little girl, her parents killed her. every time I read stories like this, I cry and pray to god that no harm ever reaches my children. After reading the article I thought losing a child must be the worst possible thing to happen to anyone in this life and that's how I ended up on this websites article. To all the parents who have lost your dear little angels, I can't begin to imagine the pain you have endured. Unspeakable, unforgiving pain. For a human to go through that much pain I know there has to be justice. Can life really be that unfair? I hope and pray and truly believe that all those amazing strong parents will be reunited with their angels once this life is over. This life is so hard, harder for others and hardest for the strongest souls.

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我愛我的父母，但他們知道他們有一個生命。那些把父母放在第一位的人從來沒有經歷過孩子的愛。作為一個新生育的母親，宮縮作為一個母親，當你的孩子有了痛苦時，作為一個母親的宮縮是失去的去世了。12年過去了，我仍然很傷心。有些人沒有生活經驗，希望他們不必經歷我所擁有的，并且仍在經歷

Nothing in life to find your 18 year old child hanging from a rope in your garage from suicide. I love my parents but they know they have had a life. People that put their parents first have never I repeat never experienced the love of a child. Contractions as a new bearing mother and contractions as a mother in lose when your child has died.12 years on and I am still so sad. Some people have no experience in life and hopefully they don't have to experience what I have and am still going through it.

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到目前為止，對一個父母來說，最具毀滅性的事情莫過于身為父母的人。孩子給了你目標、意義和成就感。如果有人想體驗無條件的愛，就要有一個孩子。沒有比這更強烈的愛和紐帶了。當你失去孩子時，你的身份，目標和生命的意義永遠被摧毀。它壓碎了你的靈魂，雖然痛苦隨著時間的推移而減輕，但它永遠不會消失。它伴隨著你的余生

By far the most devastating thing that can happen to someone who is a parent. Certainly is #1 to anyone who is a parent. A child gives you purpose, meaning and accomplishment. If anyone ever wants to experience unconditional love, have a child. No stronger love or bond than that. When you lose a child, your identity, purpose and life meaning are destroyed forever. It crushes your soul, and although the pain softens over time, it never goes away. It's with you for the rest of your life.

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人們不知道失去一個孩子是什么感覺。你期望失去你的父母……你應該活得比他們長壽……這就是生活的方式。我們20年前在我們結婚28周年紀念日那天，我們的兒子死于一個酒后駕車的人。我仍然有很多時候我無法忍受。一個人學會了接受。一個人別無選擇。這些其他的建議是難以置信的。要真實。我猜這些人沒有信仰或者沒有宗教信仰來害怕地獄。害怕坐牢，來吧，如果你犯了錯，付出時間。如果你殺了人，是真的，你會期待什么…想想你殺了人的家人…這個網站不是真的。做一些調查生活中最大的壓力是那些你失去了一個孩子的人。我認為唯一比失去一個孩子更糟糕的事情就是失去兩個或更多的孩子。想想第二次世界大戰所有被德國人殺害的孩子，甚至連成年人都不想。那些提出其他建議的人，如果你真的想得到一個你想要的孩子……更多

People have no clue what it's like to lose a child. You expect to lose your parent... You should outlive them... That's the way of life. We lost our son 20 yrs ago to a drunk driver on our 28th wedding anniversary. I still have times that I just can't handle it. One learns to live with it. One doesn't have a choice. These otherSuggestions are unbelievable. Be real. I guess these people have no faith or no religion to fear hell. fear of jail, come on, if you broke the law did wrong, pay the time. If youKilled someone, be for real, what do you expect... Think of the family of the person you killed... This site is not for real. Do some research. The biggest stressor in life are those you lost a child. I think the only thing worse than losing a childid to lose 2 children or more. Think of WW2 all the children killed by the Germans.. Not even thinking of the adults. Those people who have made the other suggestions have never had a child if you do think of whick one you'd like ... more

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我還只是個十幾歲的孩子，我不打算很快生孩子，但當我長大了有了孩子，我會永遠保護我的孩子！即使這意味著晚上在他們的床下檢查或者陪著他們直到他們睡著，我不會讓他們去參加瘋狂的深夜聚會，除非他們是負責任的成年人，而且無論發生什么，我都會一直陪在他們身邊！同性戀、女同性戀、變性人等等。因為孩子是一個非常重要的禮物，每個有孩子的人都應該珍惜它。~少女，是的，沒錯！

I'm only a Teen, I don't plan on having kids any time soon, but when I'm older and have kids, I will always protect my child! Even if it means just checking under their beds at night or staying with them 'till they fall asleep. I won't let them go to crazy late night parties until they are responsible adults, and I will ALWAYS stay by their side no matter what! (Gay, Lesbian, Transgender, etc.) Because a child is a very important gift and everyone who has a child should treasure it. ~ Teenage Girl, Yeah that's right!

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是的，就是這樣，我在2008年3月1日的一場車禍中失去了我20歲的兒子。我的世界停止了。我還有兩個兒子，6個和15個不得不繼續。你們中的一部分死了，我每天睡了16個小時。我知道死亡并不是終點，因為他甜美的靈魂一直陪伴著我，我對耶穌有信心，知道我們會再次在一起，但我想念我美麗的男孩布萊恩·林恩我13歲失去了母親，27歲失去了父親，但失去了一個孩子是一個父母所能經歷的最糟糕的事情，生活會繼續下去，但永遠是一個洞

Yep this is it I lost my 20 year old son in a car wreck march 1,2008. My world stopped. I had 2 other sons 6 and 15 had to go on. A part of you dies I slept like 16 hours a day. I know death is not the end cus his sweet spirit stayed with me and I have faith in Jesus and know we will be together again but I miss my beautiful boy Brian Lynn Walden every single day.Lost my mother at 13 and my dad at 27 but losing a child is the worst thing a parent can experience life goes on but a hole forever