我很好(I’m fine)——歐美人們最常說的謊話

我很好(I’m fine)——歐美人們最常說的謊話在《歐美人們最常說的謊話》中排名第1名。我們精選了部分網友觀點： ...

我很好歐美人們最常說的謊話在歐美人們最常說的謊話中排名第1名。

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我們精選了部分網友觀點：

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當你在這個網站上投票時，它要求你解釋為什么。我的原因？好吧，幾年前，我的一個朋友表現得有點不一樣。她不再來和我們一起玩了，她改變了自己的風格。太多的事情都說不清了。她開始只穿連帽衫和長袖t恤。那時候我開始懷疑了。每天，我會問她，她還好嗎？答案總是一樣的，“我很好。”有一天，她告訴我她很好，我就去她家檢查她的手腕、臀部和腿，看看她是否在割傷。我到她家時，她的門沒有鎖。我走到她的房間，看到她床上有張紙條。我聽到浴室里有水，然后就走了發現她在浴缸里，滿身是血，手腕被割傷。她準時趕到醫院。幸運的是，她問我怎么知道的，我只是告訴她“我不好。”而且我和她說了多年的謊。幾個月后她自殺了。但有一件事讓我……更多

When you vote on this site, it asks you to explain why. My reason? Well, a few years ago, a friend of mine was acting a little different. She had stopped coming to hang out with us, she had changed her style. Too many things to name. She started to only ever wear hoodies and long-sleeved t-shirts. That's when I became really suspicious. Everyday, I would ask her was she okay. It was always the same answer, 'I'm Fine.' One day, I was done with her telling me she's fine so I went to her house to check her wrists, hips and legs to see if she was cutting. I got to her house and her door was unlocked. I walked up to her room and saw a note on her bed. I heard water in the bathroom and found her in the bathtub with bloody-water and slit wrists. She got to the hospital on time. Luckily. She asked me how did I know and I just told her 'I'm not okay.' and that I have been telling the same lie as her for years. She ended up killing herself a few months later. But the one thing that keeps me ... more

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我有一個朋友，但最近他很少來學校，我想他每4個星期來一次，當周末來臨時，他只是有一段時間不回來。他說他很好，但我不知道我該怎么做，因為他顯然身體不好。甚至有傳言說他一直假裝抑郁想退學。我真的不知道我該怎么做，我不知道我該打電話給他，和他的一些朋友談談，等到他回來好好談談，還是就放手。最近我見到他時，我注意到他表現得有多不一樣，我曾經覺得我們有很強的聯系，但這些天僅僅在他身邊就感覺很尷尬。我不知道我該怎么做，是否該做點什么，甚至不知道是否值得讓他留在我的生活中

I have a friend, but lately he hasn't been coming to school much, I'd say he comes for about a week once every 4 weeks, and when the weekend comes around, he just doesn't come back for a while. He says that he's fine, but I don't know what I should do, since he clearly isn't fine. There has even been rumour that he has been faking depression to get out of school. I really don't know what I should do, I don't know whether I should call him, talk to some of his friends, wait until he comes back an have a proper talk or just let it go. And lately when I have been seeing him, I've been noticing how differently he has been acting, and I used to feel that we had a strong connection, but these days just being around him feels awkward. I have no idea what I should do, if I should do something, or even if it's worth keeping him in my life...

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我很好，但我不是真的很好，如果有人不能看著你的眼睛告訴你他們的好，他們不好只是說-阿比泰希萊德

I'm fine, but I'm not really fine, if someone can't look you in the eye tell you their fine, they are not fine (Just saying) - abbythecheerleader

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這絕對是第一位。當你情緒低落，脾氣暴躁，周圍的人都能從你的臉上看出這一點，但他們卻來問你：“你還好吧？”你就會自然而然地說：“我很好。”因為1你的問題太復雜了，他們無法理解；2你太累了，因為你假裝自己很好，無法向他們解釋你的問題

This is definitely number 1. It is really depressing when you're feeling down and grumpy and everyone around you can see that from your face yet they come and ask you, "Are you okay? " and you just automatically say, "I'm fine." because (1) your problem is way too complicated for them to understand and (2) you're way too exhausted from pretending you're just fine to explain your problem to them.

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最近我父母離婚了，我爸爸殺了我的兄弟，我必須和我的朋友住在一起。我只有兩天的時間在街上。我有兩個朋友和一個試圖讓我感覺良好的朋友。我曾經嘗試過4次奪去我的生命，而我只有12歲，我感到絕望。我只想結束這一切，但我怎樣才能不傷害我唯一真正的朋友。她真的關心我。我有一把刀看起來它能幫我完成任務，但我是我唯一真正的朋友，所以如果我去，她會：

recentally my parents got divorced,my dad killed my brothers,and I have to live with my friend I have only 2 more days here then I'm on the streets.I have two friends and one that trys to make me feels ok.I have tried taking my life 4 times before and I'm only 12 I feel hopeless.I just want to end it but how do I without upsetting my only true friend.she actually cares about me.I have a knife that looks like it would do the job of finishing me but I'm my only true friends friend so if I go she will to :(

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說實話。這是真的。大多數時候人們說“我很好”，其實他們不是。我以前也說過這個謊。當我在體育課上摔斷了腳，疼得很厲害，所以我整天蹣跚地說“我沒事的！”對所有問我的人。沒有人相信我。我總是在傷心或其他什么時候說“我很好”。我盡量不示弱，不哭。為了達到這個目的，我捂著臉以防萬一。然后掐自己或什么東西

Honestly..this is true... most of the time people say '" I'm Fine" when they really aren't. I've actually told this lie before. When I broke my foot in P.E.. it hurt a lot so I was hobbling around al day repeating ' I'll be fine! ' to everyone that asked. nobody believed me. I always say 'i'm fine' when I'm sad or something. I try not to show weakness. to not cry. to accomplish this I cover my face just in case I do. then pinch myself or somethin.

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是的，就像有人問“你好嗎？”當你的頭骨骨折或者發燒的時候你會說“我很好”。這個謊言很常見。—宇宙

Yeah like when someone asks "How are you? " and you say "i'm fine" when you fractured a skull or something or you have a really bad fever. This lie is really common. - cosmo

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不管有多少人問我還好嗎？…答案永遠是我很好，即使我很沮喪。但這總比人們同情我好…抑郁的少年-

No matter how many people ask me if I'm okay?... the answer will always be I'm fine even though I might be depressed as hell..but it's better than people thinking pity of me...-depressed teenager-

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我一直這么說，但當別人說的時候，我深深地看著他們的眼睛說：“哥們，抑郁是人類的，尤其是在這個世界上。”

I say this one all the time, but when others say it I look deeply into their eyes an say "dude, its human to be depressed, especially in this world."

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在這一點上，我敢肯定，如果你不說你很好，你的朋友會擔心，這會成為一場關于誰的病情更糟的競賽，或者人們會認為你在夸大/撒謊

At this point I'm fairly sure if you don't say you're fine a) your friends will worry b) it will become some kind of contest on who has it worse or c) people will think you're exaggerating/lying.