欺負者歐美孩子討厭上學的十大原因在歐美孩子討厭上學的十大原因中排名第2名。

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有一次，這個7年級的學生在公園欺負我，我試圖避開他的路，但他會監視我，拿走我的零食和書.我學的是武術，很快我就成了黑帶.我向7年級的學生發起了一場搏斗，周圍的人都在看.那個惡霸想把我打倒，但他沒打中，我就在他臉上踢了一腳.他真的翻了一個跟頭，他在朋友面前丟臉了

One time this 7th grader was bullying me at the park, And I tried to avoid walking his way but he would just spy on me and take my snacks and books. I studied Martial Arts, and soon I was a black belt. I challenged the 7th grader to a fight and the whole neighborhood watched. The bully tried knocking me down, But he missed and I did a flip kick right to his face. He actually did a somersault, and he got embarresed in front of his friends.

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當我大約12歲的時候，我看到另一個班上的一群孩子（白癡），他們站在那里用拳頭打其他6-7歲的孩子，他們開始哭，一些孩子開始流血，所以我走到他們身邊試圖阻止他們，當我這樣做的時候，他們拿走了我的臉把它砸到磚墻上，我摔斷了鼻子，臉上滿是血，一條血河順著我的臉流下來，我開始哭，然后那些小混蛋跑掉了，但這還不是最糟糕的事情，最糟糕的是一個老師站在離那東西15-20米遠的地方，根本沒注意到，老實說，家庭作業絕對應該是2級，因為它壓力太大了，會把你帶回家，但是沒有什么能比得上這個——螢火蟲

When I was about 12 Years old, I saw a bunch of kids (idiots) in the other class that where about 13-14 Years old standing punching other kids that where about 6-7 years old in to the hard brick wall so they started crying and some of them started bleeding, so I of course walked to them and tried to stop them, when I did that they took my face and smashed it in to the brick wall so I broke my nose and my face was filled with Blood and a river of blood started running down my face and I started crying and then those little jerks ran away, but that was not even the worst thing, no the worst thing was that a TEACHER was standing about 15-20 meters away from the thing not paying ANY attention, in all honestly homework definitely should be the #2 because it's so stressful and brings the hell home to you, but Nothing can compare to this - FireflyNeville

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三個多月來，我被一群欺負的告密者欺負了！他們是地球上最卑微、最惡心的生物之一。他們認為只要有可能就結伙攻擊我，大喊令人難以置信的粗魯和有辱人格的侮辱和死亡威脅。我們還有一個供應老師，她顯然對我有兩極情感，但她決定以某種方式讓我的所有班級都反對我，并刪除了我所有的證據當我把舞蹈和游戲室的約會搞混了，把我綁在一起，讓我看起來盡可能的壞。我想毀了學校。最瘋狂的是，這些人中的一些人曾經是我的朋友，但是因為新的iPhone或者別的什么東西把學校從監獄變成了一個地獄。我永遠找不到指導顧問，我父母想得到證據的想法完全破滅了，正如我之前提到的，我的班級繼續著他們的虐待狂欺凌。我真的認為我經歷了人類歷史上最嚴重的欺凌，還有……更多

I was bullied by AN ENTIRE CLASS OF BULLY SNITCHES FOR OVER 3 MONTHS! They are some of the lowest, most disgusting creatures on planet earth. They think it is okay to gang up on me whenever they can, shouting incredibly rude and degrading insults and death threats. We also had this supply teacher who is CLEARLY BIPOLAR TO ME, but she decided to turn all my class against me somehow and deleted all of my proof of my class's heinous actions when she took my tablet in class when I mixed up the dance and games room dates and tied to make me look as bad as possible. I wanted to destroy the school. The insane part is, that some of these people were my friends once, but were sold out for the new iPhone or something to turn school from prison to a living hell. I can never find the guidance counselor, my parents idea of getting proof was ruined, as I mentioned before and my class went on with their sadistic bullying. I honestly think that I lived through the worst bullying in human history and ... more

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我個人不在乎別人怎么看我，也不在乎別人怎么看我，只要這種欺凌行為沒有延伸到身體層面。這確實是學校的主要問題之一。由于欺凌的范圍如此之大，幾乎沒有什么辦法可悲的。在我以前的學校里，曾經有過這樣的案例被欺負的被停職了，而不是被欺負的。那，就在那里，很明顯是愚蠢的。如果你要反擊，如果有人打你，你將是被停職的人，你將是每個人憎恨的人，你應該是錯的，而不是挑起沖突的人，是你。這就是我們教育制度的問題所在。他們認為雙方都要為沖突負責，而幾乎99%的時間里只有一個參與者負責

I personally do not care for what others think of me or how they view me, as long as the bullying does not extend to a physical level. This truly is one of the main problems with schools. There is hardly anything that can be done about it sadly due to how vast it is. There have been cases at previous schools of mine where the person who was bullied got suspended instead of the bully. That, that right there, is plain down right stupid. If you were to fight back if someone were to punch you, YOU would be the one who got suspended, YOU would be the one who everyone hates, YOU would be the one at fault. Not the person who started the confrontation. YOU. That is what is wrong with our educational system. They believe that both parties are responsible for the confrontation, when almost 99% of the time only one participant is responsible.

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阻止欺凌行為需要大家共同努力。你并不真的希望家長/管理者獨自解決所有欺凌問題。需要做的是制定一個計劃，引導學生完成解決問題的過程，讓他們在成年人的指導下幫助解決欺凌情況。說起來容易做起來難，我知道。似乎最受欺負的人都是孤立的人。那些沒有朋友的學生。也許他們害羞，內向，反社會。不管什么原因，欺負者傾向于欺負那些沒有支持網絡的學生。欺負者實際上是弱者。你看不到他們欺負與他們同等力量的人。他們欺負那些他們能夠支配的人，而這些人幾乎沒有抵抗力。當然，欺負者是不可能存在的，沒有他們的促成者待命，只是看著欺凌行為發生，不要說或做任何事情來阻止它。太多的時候他們…更多

Stopping bullying behavior needs to be a shared effort. You don't really want parents/administrators solving all of the bullying issues alone. What needs to happen is to have a plan where students are guided through a solution process, where they can help resolve the bullying situation with guidance from adults. Easier said than done, I know. It seems that the people that are bullied the most are isolated individuals. Those students who don't have friends. Perhaps they are shy, introverted, anti-social. Whatever reason, bullies tend to bully those students who don't have a network of support. Bullies are really the weak individuals. You don't see them bullying people that are their equal in terms of strength. They bully those who they can dominate with as little to no resistance. Of course bullies couldn't exist with out their enablers. People who standby and just watch bullying behavior happen and don't say or do anything in an effort to stop it. Too often they ... more

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其實我并不經常被欺負，但最近這兩個男孩一見到我就叫我“emo”，把我課堂上的演講全毀了，還羞辱了我。我正在做報告的時候，他們開始朝我扔紙，大喊“emo！”“回去割你自己！”等等，我甚至沒有注意到他們這樣做，因為我在做演講的時候太緊張了，以至于我不知道我周圍的環境，但是我的一個朋友告訴我這件事，知道他們這么做的感覺很不好。老實說，讀到這篇文章中一些比我糟糕得多的評論，我感到非常抱歉！既然我知道了被欺負是什么滋味，我會努力為任何一個被欺負或被排斥的人挺身而出。—就在這里

I actually don't get bullied very often, but lately these two boys have been calling me "emo" whenever they see me, and totally ruined my presentation in class and humiliated me. I was giving my presentation when they began throwing paper at me and shouting "EMO! " and "Go back to cutting yourself! " Etc. I didn't even notice them doing this because I was so nervous giving my presentation that I wasn't aware of my surroundings, but one of my friends informed me of this and it didn't feel good knowing that they had done that. Honestly, reading some of the comments in this post with situations that are MUCH worse than mine, I feel so sorry! Now that I know what it is like to be bullied, I will make an effort to stick up for anyone who is being bullied or is an outcast. - justhereforonething

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學校里的每個人都會指出我有多丑，比如說我長痘痘，說我兩頭分叉，還叫我化個妝，這樣我看起來就不像男人了。有一個人，每當他在課堂上或走廊里看到我，當他看到我的時候，他表現得非常厭惡，假裝嘔吐，然后跑開了。聲音校長和我們談過，讓他停下來，但他從來沒有這樣做。我在六年級時感覺很好，但是在七年級的時候，我變得很不安全，甚至不能忍受看著自己的臉。這就像突然之間，關于你自己的每一個細節都很重要。我要上八年級了，整個夏天我都很痛苦。我希望今年的情況會有所改變。-冰棍

Everyone at my school points out how ugly I am, like calling me a pimple face, saying I have split ends, and telling me to put makeup on so I don't look like a guy. There's this one guy, and whenever he sees me in class or in the hallway, he acts so disgusted when he sees me he pretends to gag and then runs away. The voice principal talked with us, and told him to stop, but he never did. I felt fine in 6th grade, but in 7th grade I became really insecure and couldn't even stand to look at my own face. It's like all of the sudden every little detail about yourself matters. I'm going into 8th grade, and this whole summer I've been miserable. I hope things change this year. - Popsicles

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必須是第一名。我班上的女生諷刺性地打電話來羞辱我，孩子們打我，讓我為我沒做的事情惹麻煩，然后結伙對我，在情感上辱罵我，直到我快要哭出來。如果我甚至試圖還擊，我會被踢到內臟，被嘲笑，甚至更嚴重的侮辱。兩個孩子曾經孵化出一個成功的計劃讓我陷入困境，然后知道我不能對他們做任何事，就對我嗤之以鼻，到我家來羞辱我，把我的桌子圍起來，把它推到墻上，把我的指節弄斷，走到我面前，對我進行情感上的虐待，直到我快要哭出來一個老師把我和班上的另一個女孩一起帶走，讓全班的人都嘲笑我。貓咪挖苦我，在走廊里羞辱我。每天午飯時，4個男孩都會侮辱我，直到我想哭，偶爾也會向我扔東西。我太害怕公開了…更可怕了。對不起。-旺基杜德98，但事實是…人們沒有被激怒就不會做任何事。下次，想想你做了什么導致了現在的局面。-像我們一樣

NEEDS TO BE NUMBER ONE. Girls in my class sarcastically cat call and humiliate me, kids beat me up, get me into trouble for stuff I didn't do, and gang up on me, emotionally abusing me until I'm on the verge of tears. If I even attempt to fight back I'll get kicked in the gut, laughed at, or insulted even more badly. Two kids once hatched a successful plan to get me in trouble, and then knowing that I couldn't do anything to them, snitched on me, went up to my house to humiliate me, surrounded my desk and pushed it against the wall with me between the 2 surfaces, cracked my knuckles, walked up to me and emotionally abused me until I was on the verge of tears. My pathetic excuse of a teacher shipped me with another girl in my class and got the whole class to laugh at me. Girls cat called me sarcastically and humilated me in the hallways. Everyday at lunch, 4 boys would insult me until I felt like crying, and would occasionally throw things at me. I was so scared to be out in the open ... more That's horrible. I'm sorry. - WonkeyDude98 But the truth is... people don't do anything without being provoked. Next time, think about what you've done to cause the situation at hand. - likus

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所有的學校都說“不要欺負人”。他們實際上什么也沒做。很可悲的是，你看的那些電視節目都告訴你要告訴家長或老師。但是家長什么都不能做，他們不去上學，學校里甚至沒有人在乎。我妹妹在輔導員辦公室（我不記得為什么）和當她離開時，她無意中聽到一個男孩告訴他的輔導員他被欺負了。輔導員說“下次再發生就告訴我們吧。”然后男孩說“你上次告訴我了。”我妹妹還沒來得及聽到其他對話就走了。還有，我學校的一個女孩自殺了，學校什么也沒做他們只關心自己的名譽，所以他們試圖掩蓋。她的朋友說他們不認為她受到欺凌，但他們不確定。她沒有留下遺書。什么都沒有。沒有調查，也沒有什么。我認識的是一個女孩！他們不在乎。可惜她自殺了！如果你在學校里告訴一個成年人，那就不會在乎哪一個是不體諒和難以置信的！：（他們只在乎錢，這不會給他們帶來任何好處！-影迷

All schools say is "Don't bully." They don't actually do anything about it. It's sad because all those T.V. shows you watch tell you to tell a parent or teacher. But a parent can't do anything. They don't go to school. And no one in the school even cares. My little sister was in the counselor's office (I don't remember why. ) and when she was leaving she overheard a boy tell his counselor that he was being bullied. The counselor said "Just tell us next time it happens." and then the boy said "You told me that last time." My sister left before she could hear the rest of the conversation. Also, a girl in my school COMMIT SUICIDE and the school didn't do ANYTHING. They just care for their reputation, so they try to cover it up. Her friends said that they don't think she was being bullied, but they weren't sure. She didn't leave a suicide note. Nothing. No investigation was ever launched or anything. And it was a girl I knew! They don't care. Pity that she committed suicide! If you tell an adult at school, that won't REALLY care which is inconsiderate and UNBELIEVABLE! :( All they care for is money and that won't get them anywhere! - ShadowSwashy

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欺負人是可怕的。在中學里，你被迫去健身房。大多數孩子根據運動或成績來判斷，有時人們會因為欺凌降低他們的自尊而沮喪。尤其是在中學。在中學，你把那些還沒有達到成長高峰的孩子們和占了一半運動隊的巨人們放在一起。巨人們會取笑小孩子們，導致可怕的事情發生。這已經變得非常糟糕，人們不得不制定程序來試圖擺脫它，但它永遠不會奏效。如果我能回到過去，我會阻止第一個惡霸開始可怕的趨勢；

Bullies are horrible. In middle school you are forced to take gym. Most kids judge based on sports or grades, and sometimes people get depressed because of bullies lowering their self-esteem. Especially in middle school. In middle school, you are putting kids that haven't hit their growth spurt with the giants who take up half the sports teams. The giants will make fun of the small kids causing horrible things to happen. This has become so BAD that people have had to make programs to try to get rid of it, but it never works. If I could go back in time, I'd stop the first bully from starting the awful trend. show more comments darr;